Myth 1: "I Can Change My Partner" I hear it all the time. "I'll help him/her be better. Not if he/she doesn't want to be helped or do the work their self. We all have free will to choose, to create our own reality. You can't force another human to change, they have to want to change. Myth 2: "After We Say "I Do" We Will Live Happily Ever After" Successful relationships take effort. Everyday you choose to love, just like you choose to go to work. Is your partner a quitter when